Wednesday, June 22, 2011

The Bebe Photo Shoot

I debated whether I wanted to have "pregnancy photos" done--that photo shoot that is similar to engagement photos but meant to glorify the bump.  In the end, I asked a friend, Roger, to do some photos for us so that way we could have some photographic evidence without going overboard.  And Roger knows his way around a lens.  Here are some of my favorites.





We took all of these photos at the Hilton Hawaiian Village during our babymoon.  We walked around and tried lots of different locations, but I liked the photos in front of the Benihana the best.  I like what the wind did for my hair.

But the best photographic representation of how we're approaching parenthood has to be...








Saturday, June 18, 2011

Family Shower

As if two showers weren't enough, Cathy and Sharon put together a family baby shower for us as well!  I'm continually touched and amazed at everyone's generosity and caring.  It's a humbling thing.

This shower was full of fun games as well.  One involved guessing who belonged to which baby picture.   A little unfair for mine given that I'm the only haole in the bunch!!  But that was pretty fun.  Another one had me write down which characteristics from Mikey and I that I want the little alien to acquire.  Then everyone, Mikey included, had to guess what I had chosen.  See the end of this post for my answers.  That was my favorite game at this shower.

I was also pleased to find out that Mikey's immediate family is very good at keeping secrets.  When we told my OB that we told the immediate family the sex of the baby, but no one else, he said that there was no way it was going to remain secret.  Well, the grumbling we heard from extended family members as they arrived at the shower was proof enough!


Sharon arranged these roses and I got to take them home.  They brightened up our little condo--a bit of fresh beauty amongst the chaos.


We had the requisite cake, which was quite good.  Shanti and Zachary were on hand to help with the serving.


We also received plenty gifts.  People grumbled about not knowing what to get since they didn't know the sex, but I think everyone did just fine.  We're very nearly set for the little alien's arrival.



And now for the answers to which characteristics I want the little one to get from each of us...

Eyes - Siobhan (This one was difficult.  I want the alien to have Mikey's shape eyes, but my good eyesight.)
Nose - Mikey (My honker is ginormous!)
Ears - Siobhan 
Hair - Siobhan (Mikey's hair is coarser than mine...silky locks all the way!)
Chin - Siobhan (I like my sharp, cleft chin.)
Butt - Mikey (So cute, I can't help it.)
Legs - Mikey (Mikey has legs women just might kill for...)
Fingers - Mikey (My fingers are short and kind of stubby.  Mikey's are long and slender.)
Smile - Siobhan (It brightens up a room!)
Discipline - Mikey (When it comes down to it, I think Mikey might have more in a pinch.)
Humor - Siobhan (No need to comment on this one...)
Intelligence - Mikey (This one was tough!  But in a nod to Mikey, I gave it to him.)
Friendliness - Mikey (I'm shy around strangers.  Mikey is much more friendly.)
Creativity - Siobhan (Mikey can't even see shapes in the veins in the marble tiles!)
Singing Voice - Siobhan (Mikey's isn't bad either, but perhaps I'm a little vain.)
Patience - Siobhan (This goes without saying.)
Money Management - Siobhan (I have plenty years of experience!)
Culinary Skills - Mikey (Like a good Chinese boy, Mikey's masterpieces are delectable!)
Tidiness - Mikey (This actually says more about me than it does about Mikey...)
Timeliness - Mikey (Another toss-up.  We're both not the most prompt people in the world.)

The best part of this game was listening to people's reactions.  And Mikey got most of them right.



Thursday, June 16, 2011

Babymoon!!!

Mikey and I spent the King Kamehameha Day long weekend on a staycation babymoon.  We got a fairly good deal at the Hilton Hawaiian Village and stayed in the Ali'i Tower for three wonderful nights.  Well, actually, the days were a bit better given my current sleeping difficulties.  I got a pedicure and Mikey spent some time in the ocean.  We ate the (quite nice) buffet breakfast every morning.  We went to the pool together on a couple of occasions.  The worst part of that was getting out--I felt about ten times heavier than when I went in!  I also learned that pregnancy is not conducive to wearing pre-pregnancy swimwear.

A short review in photos...


One of the views from our room.


We could also look down and see the Super Pool.  I took this photo fairly early in the morning, so there were very few people in the pool, but by afternoon everyday, this place was packed!


Difficult to see unless you click on the picture, the Hilton Hawaiian Village is home to some penguins who apparently prefer the sun of paradise to the ice of their former habitat.


We received a gift card to Ruths Chris for our wedding and thought it appropriate to use it for a nice dinner on our babymoon.  The shrimp cocktail appetizer was not only delicious, it was fun to behold as well!


The bulk of our meal consisted of steak (I had filet mignon and Mikey had hanger), macaroni and cheese, and asparagus with hollandaise.  The food was so decadent. 


We finished the meal with a light dessert of berries and custard.  One of my favorite desserts of all time, even if it did have a few too many blueberries for my taste.  Mikey was kind enough to eat most of them, though, allowing me to focus on the far more delicious blackberries and strawberries.


Overall, it was a lovely weekend.  We certainly do pay a heavy tax for living in paradise, but a benefit we get in return is a quick, weekend stay in Waikiki that does not involve a five-hour flight or years of savings.  Completely worth it.






Monday, June 13, 2011

Baby Shower de Travail

My Friday began fairly normally.  I was pleasantly surprised to see Roy when I came in in the morning, but we had a conversation and I made sure to tell him that we had a meeting with the big boss about the project we had both just finished.  I also made plans to go down to the Employee Benefit Fair, more to see my long lost friend Carl than to learn the gritty details of deferred compensation.

So the time for the meeting came and Roy and I dutifully went into the boss's office for a debriefing.  Apparently we were in there for some time, but I didn't really notice the time pass as I was busy evaluating how well we had done on the project and the room we had for improvement next year.  As we walked out, I asked Roy if he wanted to accompany me to the Fair.  Per usual, I had to visit Tinkle Town, so we agreed to meet outside by the railing.

When we reached the front, Steve mentioned that lunch was ready.  I was told that we were going to have a taco/burrito bar as a farewell to our Session staff, and I had brought two cheesecakes from Cheesecake Factory as a thank you to the office for working so diligently on that project.  Roy walked out and as the door was closing, I saw Mikey coming toward the office.  I acknowledged Steve, then hurried out the door to catch Mikey who, between the time I saw him and the time I got out of the door, seemed to have changed his mind and decided he was going to Tinkle Town too.  It looked like he was trying to run away from me, but I caught him before he went all the way in and we talked a bit.  I asked if he wanted to go to the Fair and after a bit of awkward and suspicious conversation that involved him not having time, we kissed farewell and I began the long trek to the restroom (which gets even longer every day!).

When I came out, Roy was waiting for me and asked if I wanted to go down to the Fair.  I hesitated and then said that lunch was ready, so perhaps we should have lunch first and then go down.  Roy readily agreed and we walked back into the office to find Steve still at the front.  I found that odd, but followed him to the lunch area and into a baby shower ambush!

Evidently, Susan and Alicia had taken point and organized a baby shower for Mikey and I!  And much to Susan's delight, I was completely surprised!  Of course, all the little quirks that led up to the ambush made it that much more fun.


Apparently, the "meeting" was a way of keeping me occupied and went a bit longer than was strictly necessary for the party preparation.  I maintain that, by design, I didn't know the meeting was merely a diversion and so of course I took it seriously!  And then, I had to visit Tinkle Town!  So people ended up waiting while I, blissfully unaware, went about my merry way.  Good thing my coworkers are patient people!


Once I finally got there, I think it was clear that I was surprised.  I thought I was going to a thank you lunch for other people!


Two of the ladies who work Session with us made this gorgeous bouquet.  I actually saw them make it the day before and thought nothing of it, though they told me later that when I walked into the lunch area while they were making it, they made sure not to make eye contact and hope that I wouldn't notice.  They needn't have worried.


Around the office, my little alien is known as Guaco.  This moniker is thanks to Roy, who decided that we should name the kid Guacamole Ng, so we can call it Guaco for short.  Somehow, it just stuck!


There was a taco/burrito bar, it was just meant for the shower!  This is one of the reasons that Susan and Alicia are so awesome--they know Mexican is my favorite cuisine.  And Susan made her homemade salsa!


I was also touched to see how generous everyone was.  Gathering around the lunch table with good food and good company is one thing, but the rest was so unexpected and I was a little overcome.  Guaco is lucky to have so many excellent aunties and uncles!


And of course there were games!  Ali arranged all the games and the "feeding baby" game was my favorite.  How often to you get to see fellow professionals in bibs?


Of course, Roy and Jamie devised the "baby bird" feeding strategy.  Jamie leaned back and Roy just poured the food in.  Jamie was laughing so hard, I thought he was going to spit the entire jar's contents out on the table!

Overall, I had such a wonderful time.  I've said it before, and I'll continue to say it--my coworkers make me look forward to coming to work every morning.  

Oh, and one last thing...


Mikey was in on it the whole time.  That guy!!



Saturday, June 4, 2011

Cook A Little Longer!

I went to Labor and Delivery on Wednesday, June 1st, because I was having some pain in my lower abdomen.  Turns out, I'm already one centimeter dilated!  Now, this worried me because it worried the midwife on duty at the hospital that night.  She put me on modified bed rest for the next two days and told me to follow up at the clinic.  After two days of epic boredom (though I had plenty of time to finish Book 6 of the Harry Potter series), I went to that appointment this morning.

Yup, still one centimeter.  That was actually good news since I don't really want to give birth quite this early.  More good news was that my regular doctor (who I was able to see this morning) checked everything and gave me leave to go back to work.  I'm still taking it easy because I don't really know what causes one to dilate, but it will be nice not to have to divide my time between the bed and the couch.

The bit of bittersweet news that my doctor gave me was that while it is possible to still go my remaining five weeks in this state, it is still possible to still go my remaining five weeks in this state--painful abdomen and all.  I'll be most satisfied to get to 37 weeks and be done.  That way, I'll still have time to change my name on my driver's license and spend some quality time with Mikey on our babymoon.

So yes, little alien, we anxiously await your arrival, but don't be so hasty...cook a little longer.

Friday, June 3, 2011

Alien's First Shower

I don't know why I choose to call the squirming thing in my stomach an alien rather than a baby, though I suspect it is a bit of superstition.  I really want everything to go well and a new, healthy life to join us at the end of this...ahem...pregnancy adventure, but I don't want to count my chickens before they hatch.  (Well, isn't that expression rather apropos?)  Although, it may also be the case that watching my stomach rise and fall in odd places really does remind me of Alien...

But, I did say I would post new pictures of our alien's first shower as soon as I got them, and here is a sample!


One of the things I love about this restaurant is the decor.  It's fun to sit beneath a tree and not worry about ants or how I'm going to get myself back into a standing position.


We played a memory game.  The winner got seven correct, but for the majority of us, our memories apparently max out at six.


Another game we played involved trying to guesstimate the size of my tummy (around the apex, of course).  Wimmie and Kiriko were close, but nearly everyone else guessed way too large.  Mikey's was nearly double!!  Poor Jamie had the same size!


Alicia decided the 70's look was the way to go with her ribbon and Susan helped her model.


Steve attempted to "feed the bowl" while blindfolded.  This game was probably one of the funniest to watch.


And Brandon needed to wipe his hands after finishing his "Children of the Corn" installation for the "Build a Better Baby" contest, sponsored by Playdoh.


Incidentally, Jamie's idea of a better baby is one who can poo.  This one apparently had too many carrots.


Thanks Wimmie and Kiriko, for an awesome get together!